Rant freely online
Let it all out without editing yourself. No consequences. No judgment. A confidential space to say what you've been holding.
A human, not a bot
Say it. All of it.
Someone's listening.
Rant. Vent. Unload. Share your fears, your frustrations, your confusion — or just talk. No therapy jargon. No scripts. Just Jay, actually listening. Online sessions available now — Lagos and worldwide.
Available for sessions now — Lagos time, flexible hours
"Sometimes you don't need advice. You need someone who will sit with you in the mess without flinching."The RanttoJay promise
What this is
A real human space
for the things you need to say
This isn't therapy. It isn't a helpline. It's something simpler — and sometimes more powerful: a willing, attentive ear for when you need to vent, and a grounded perspective when you want one. Available online, confidentially, to anyone who needs it.
Feel genuinely heard
There's a real person on the other end, paying full attention — not half-watching a screen, not looking for a script to follow.
Get grounded perspective
If you want it, Jay offers honest, grounded perspective drawn from over 20 years in business and people. If you don't, he won't push one.
Fully confidential, always
What you share stays between you and Jay. No recordings, no summaries passed on, no data stored.
The process
How to book an online listening session
No intake forms. No long-winded onboarding. Pick a time and show up.
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Choose a session format
Pick the format that suits where you are — a quick 30-minute offload, a deeper 60-minute conversation, or a monthly support package.
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Book a time with Jay
Send Jay a message or use the contact form below. He'll confirm a slot that works for your timezone, whether you're in Lagos, London, or Nairobi.
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Talk — your way
Voice call, video, or text chat via WhatsApp, Zoom, or Google Meet — whichever feels right. No camera required.
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Walk away lighter
That's it. No homework. No follow-up if you don't want one. Just the relief of having been truly heard.
Jay — Lagos, Nigeria
About Jay
A listener with a life's worth of context
Jay (Ajibola Adeboye) is a strategist, business builder, and advisor who has spent over two decades navigating the real, messy terrain of life and work in Nigeria and beyond. He currently serves as COO of a CBN-licensed fintech in Lagos — and has built, consulted for, and sat with people across industries.
He's been across the table from founders in crisis, employees at breaking point, and people who just needed someone to pick up the phone at the wrong hour. He's also been that person himself.
RanttoJay is his way of making that availability intentional — a structured online space for the conversations that don't fit anywhere else, and for people who just need someone to talk to.
- Fellow, Institute of Management Consultants (FIMC)
- MBA with Distinction — Marketing & Strategy
- 20+ years in business & people
- Lagos-based, global perspective
What people say
Real conversations. Real relief.
Early voices from people who've spent time in a listening session with Jay.
★★★★★
"I wasn't looking for solutions. I just needed to say it out loud to someone who wouldn't panic. Jay gave me exactly that."
Entrepreneur, Abuja
★★★★★
"He listened without interrupting, which sounds basic — but honestly, almost no one does that. By the end of the call I felt like myself again."
Marketing professional, Lagos
★★★★★
"I've spoken to therapists, friends, family. Jay hits a different note — he's warm, but he's also direct when you need it. That combination is rare."
Parent & business owner, UK
Sessions
Choose your listening session format
All sessions run via WhatsApp call, Zoom, or Google Meet — whichever you prefer.
Quick release
Rant Drop
A single focused session to offload freely online. No background needed — just show up and talk. Pay what you can.
Pay what you can
30 minutes · one-off
- Voice or video call
- No prep needed
- Fully confidential
Full conversation
The Real Talk
A deeper listening session for when it's complicated, or when you've been carrying something for a while.
₦15,000
60 minutes · one-off
- Voice or video call
- Advice if you want it
- Written recap option
- Confidential always
Ongoing support
Monthly Anchor
A standing online arrangement for the weeks when you need a regular shoulder to lean on. Four sessions a month.
₦45,000 / mo
4 × 60 mins · monthly
- Priority scheduling
- WhatsApp check-ins
- Advice on request
- Cancel any time
Questions
Honest answers
Is RanttoJay therapy or counselling?
No. Jay is not a licensed therapist and RanttoJay is not a substitute for clinical mental health support. If you need that, please seek it. What Jay offers is a thoughtful, confidential human conversation — not diagnosis, not treatment. Think of it as a deeply attentive, safe listening space.
What if I just want to vent and not be advised?
That's the default. Jay will not offer opinions or advice unless you ask for them. You lead, he follows. If you want perspective at the end, just say so.
Are online listening sessions with Jay confidential?
Yes. Nothing you share is recorded, passed on, or used in any way. Sessions are between you and Jay, full stop. No notes leave the conversation.
Can I book a session from outside Nigeria?
Absolutely. Jay works across timezones. People in the UK, East Africa, North America, and beyond have had sessions with him. Mention your timezone when you reach out and he'll find a workable slot.
What if I can't afford a paid session?
The Rant Drop is pay-what-you-can for exactly this reason. Jay believes no one should sit alone with something heavy just because of money. Reach out honestly and he'll work something out.
How do I pay for a RanttoJay session?
Bank transfer, mobile money, or card — payment details are shared after booking confirmation. For international payments, alternatives (including USD transfer) are available on request.
Get in touch
Ready to talk?
Reach out directly, or fill in the form and Jay will respond within 24 hours.
aji.adeboye@gmail.com 0708 932 5109 WhatsApp LinkedInSend Jay a message
Tell him a little bit about what's on your mind and how you'd like to connect.
Your message is private. Jay reads it personally and no one else.
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Jay will be in touch within 24 hours. You don't have to wait alone.